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In this live streaming session on Substack, Dr. Paul introduces the platform's new live streaming feature as a means to engage with his audience through Q&A sessions. He greets participants Geraldine and Travis and mentions the potential for questions to arise during the discussion.
He shares that he received an interesting question from another writer regarding jealousy, which he finds to be a complex and common source of pain for many. This prompted him to write a thorough article earlier that day on the subject, suggesting its significance.
Dr. Paul then invites a guest, Jeremy Fox, to join the conversation. They navigate the new technology, expressing their excitement about the capabilities it offers. As they discuss the session's dynamics, Dr. Paul mentions having received a substantial question relating to jealousy from a reader. This question asks about the nature of "righteous or healthy jealousy" concerning choosing a spouse during courtship and its implications for marriage.
The discussion revolves around how jealousy can manifest in relationships and the differences between healthy and unhealthy expressions of jealousy, highlighting its potential impact on partnership dynamics.
Overall, the session fosters an interactive atmosphere where complex emotions and relationship dynamics are explored, encouraging further dialogue on psychological topics that resonate with the audience.
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In this segment of the live stream, the discussion continues about jealousy in the context of relationships. Dr. Paul reads a question from a listener asking for insight on what "righteous" or "healthy" jealousy looks like during courtship, in dating, and within marriage. This question also touches on identifying subtle indicators of infidelity, specifically a term gaining popularity called "micro-cheating."
Dr. Paul expresses initial skepticism towards the term, finding it to be a new and unnecessary concept. He clarifies that micro-cheating refers to situations where someone develops greater affection or admiration for another person than for their partner, thereby complicating feelings within a relationship.
He shares that the title of the article he wrote encompasses themes of jealousy, envy, and infidelity, while also emphasizing the concept of territoriality, which he identifies as a natural element of human courtship, particularly from a male perspective.
Jeremy Fox responds by agreeing on the importance of exploring the biological origins of jealousy, referencing the concept of "mate guarding" from evolutionary psychology. He explains how jealousy manifests differently in men and women, indicating that men are typically more concerned about physical intimacy (such as sexual engagement), while women may fear emotional intimacy, which could suggest a diversion of resources (time or emotional investment) away from the relationship.
Overall, this segment delves deeper into the psychological and evolutionary underpinnings of jealousy, examining its various forms and implications in romantic partnerships.
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